thanks but, no thanks!

i don't need your advice.

i am 34 years old. old enough to decide on my own.

i only care about first impressions when i'm in for a job interview.

that is me. take it or leave it. i may not be the person the family wanted to be.

in fact, i am different from all of you. i never identified myself with all of you.

i grew up on the outside looking in. never did i got guidance from all you, so why the hell i take one from you now?

so, yeah, i curse. i fool around. i sleep around. i smoke. i do drugs. i make out in public places. i wear offensive clothes -- if that's what you think of me.

i am the person you hate.

the only people that i need to please are long dead.

the only people that know me well are my friends.